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    My work in sexuality is based on fluent body awareness as the basis for personal choice, and on autonomy as the basis for real connection. It explores the power of desire, the joy of play, and the freedom of personal responsibility.

    I have come to see how discouraged and confused most people are in this arena. I would never have guessed that so may people feel so little real choice in their sensual and sexual lives, or struggle to exercise the choice they actually do have, or even to voice their desires. Everyone seems to have a great capacity to do what they think they are supposed to, instead of what they really long for in that moment.

    I have come to appreciate desire and choice as the route to freedom and playful loving expression. Without choice, there is no freedom, and without freedom there is no play.

    Over the years I have developed a simple, playful experience for two or more people that guides partners into desire and choice - easily, gently, sensually and as deeply as they like at any moment. It may be played for a few minutes to a few hours, and may be comforting, arousing, exploratory, fanciful, deep, silly, intimate, luscious, sexy or blissfully transporting. Each time it is played, new options arise.

    Played with even a modicum of attention, it develops personal sensual awareness and confidence, trust and creativity. Over time, the awareness and skills are naturally integrated into loving relationship and invite a deep personal and spiritual integrity.

    This process is the heart of the book I am currently writing – The Lover’s Touch: How to bring your heart into your hands, and what it can teach you about life and love.

    The book takes you through a series of luscious sensual lessons that completely support and strengthen the desire, boundaries and choices of each player. Once the skills are learned, the play can open up to whatever depth of intimacy you both desire.